How To Choose A Name
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Congratulations, you're having a baby! And soon you will give that baby a name that will last a lifetime. Finding the perfect name is no easy task, especially today when the choices are endless. To complicate matters, family politics often play a role in choice-making. Who should make the final call? You love the name David while your spouse insists on something like Felix. Your sister likes "Brandi" but your sister-in-law prefers "Andie." So what to do? Compromise with something like "Brandiandie"?
There is hope even amidst the expectations of others, once you realize that names are much more than mere words of identification. A name is a thing of great power. It not only molds who we are, it speaks of who we will become.
How to Choose a First Name
Of all the name components, the FIRST NAME has the most significant influence on a person's life/personality. Almost from the moment of birth, the first name vibration begins impacting perceptions, traits and talents. With time, the vibration of the first name plays a major role in establishing an individual's relationship patterns and communication style.
Unfortunately, many believe that the "meaning" of a first name can be learned from a baby book. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Little definitions that have been passed from one generation to the next are only fragments of the original significance. Aramaic and Hebrew names, mentioned in scripture were created centuries ago for a specific purpose in the native alphabet. Those names take on a whole new energetic purpose in English. Consider names that were first created with Chinese or Japanese characters. The transition to English was unable to preserve the original meaning.
In considering a first name for your child, several factors should be addressed:
1 Narrow the field: Make a list of names that appeal to you, noting all possible spellings. (For example, Eric can also be spelled Erik, Erich, Erick, Aric, Aeric and Erec.) Each spelling has its own set of characteristics, so if you like a name but not its profile, you could find a stronger spelling while maintaining the desired sound. Once you have your list, research the subliminal influence of each name and its variations by entering your choices in the interactive DVD guide. With the guide as a tool, you will be able to assess a name's effect on personality, health, relationships, job/career, finances and more. Some examples: Colin is balanced for business, Collin is attuned to people skills. Erika is strong for finances, Erica supports humanitarian drive. Gregg carries promotional power, while Greg will support physical adeptness.
2 Hand-Me-Down Names: If you wish to name your child after a relative, take a close look at the life and health of that individual. Your child will no doubt experience many of the same challenges, pitfalls, triumphs and personality quirks. In instances where a relative has led a life of misfortune, early death, addiction or co-dependency, think twice about adopting that individual's name for your baby.
3 Nicknames and variations: Think about whether a name may be shortened, or whether common nicknames might be applied later in life. A name could be an excellent choice in its formal form, yet a variation might create a less than ideal personality influence. Michael is top notch, but Mike brings scattered emotions and a lack of assertiveness. Remember, every variation of a name is a totally new vibration. Thus, if a woman uses Elizabeth, Beth, Liz, Betty and Liza she is creating five different personality profiles! And when a Christopher adopts Chris, he is incorporating a "name change." Never shorten a name to only initials where no vowels are present (examples: T.J., J.R.) Since vowels carry the life force of language, a first name consisting of only consonants won’t allow for optimal growth.
4 Nicknames and variations: Determine whether a name is likely to be shortened, or whether common nicknames might be applied later in life. A name could be an excellent choice in its full form, yet the shortened variation might create a totally different personality influence that is less than ideal. Michael is top notch, but Mike brings scattered emotions and a lack of assertiveness. Lynnea is ideal, but Lynn encourages hypersensitivity and relationship challenges. Remember, every variation of a name is in essence a totally new vibration. Thus, if a woman uses Elizabeth, Beth, Liz, Betty and Liza she is creating five different personality profiles! And when a Christopher adopts Chris, he is incorporating a "name change." Never shorten a name to only initials where no vowels are present (examples: T.J., J.R.) Since vowels carry the life force of language, a first name consisting of only consonants attracts very physical experiences. Ideally, determine your child's most suitable nickname possibilities at the same time you make a name choice. That way, your son or daughter will not be ambushed by a nickname that is detrimental.
5 Checking the fit and feel: Once you have a few favorite names, try them on personally in advance of the baby's birth. Use each name as your own when making restaurant reservations or when ordering free catalogs. You will quickly discover how other people respond to a particular name, positively or negatively.