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Unisex Names - Are They The Right Choice For Today?

If you saw the name Carmen on a business card, would you assume it was a man or a woman? What about Tracy, Dale, or Brett? These names, along with many others, are offered up at many websites as being unisex names, appropriate for either a boy or girl. But should they be, and what should new parents think about when considering naming their new son or daughter a unisex name?

In fact, unisex naming seems to be a trend on the rise, and many expectant parents are indeed choosing these names for their children. However, it may not be the wisest idea, and a bit of thought toward the future will help to explain why. Think about how you and I meet people today. Is it often face to face? More likely, we are introduced to new acquaintances via a business card or, even more likely, by phone or over the internet. Without a face to put with the person's name, we are forced to make assumptions about their identity, and that includes their gender.

With gender neutral names such as those mentioned above it can be impossible to know for sure. Human nature being what it is, we tend to fall back on experience, meaning we will assume the gender based on the sex of those we have known by the same name. For instance, if you grew up with a girl named Jordan, you might make the assumption that the Jordan you just received an email from is a woman, which may or may not be true. I worked with a client a few years ago whose first name was Kelly... he changed his name because he said often when a new client called there would be this silence when they heard a man's voice.

Certainly, many unisex names do carry with them affirmations tending toward one gender or the other. That quality was built into the name at it's origination point. For example, the name Leslie has strong masculine qualities and it was used only for boys in the UK up until recently. Conversely, Dana has strongly feminine qualities. 

But, like it or not our first names do identify our gender. Think carefully before choosing a unisex name for your baby boy or girl. You don't want to inadvertently put them in an awkward position in the future, or limit their choices in any unforeseen ways.

 

Child's Role In Choosing It's Own Name

What Is The Child's Role In Choosing It's Own Name?

Question for discussion: Do you believe it's possible for an unborn child to play a role in nudging parents to the name desired? I started wondering about this when I read the story of a young boy who has been featured lately as having been reincarnated. The boy's parents now believe he lived a past life as a navy pilot during World War II; the boy has apparent knowledge of airplanes and aviation that the parents and others state would be impossible without having lived a former life. The boy's name was James in the past life, and he's also named James in this life

It's certainly proven that a child in the womb learns to know it's mother's heartbeat, voice, scent, and breathing rhythm. In the Bible, when Mary the mother of Jesus visited a pregnant Elizabeth, "the baby leaped in her womb" (Elizabeth's) at the sound of Mary's greeting. (Luke 1:41). Many women relate stories of their babies "talking" to them, or giving them strong impressions of various things they should or should not do, including things that some women believe literally saved their lives.

Is it so odd to think that a child might have a role to play in naming him- or herself? I wonder.

   

The Fine Art of Naming Twins!

The Fine Art of Naming Twins

In October, Celine Dion and her husband Rene Angelil welcomed twin boys after years of waiting and persevering through the frustrating process of invitro fertilization. Once the babies arrived, Celine and Rene faced yet another challenge… that of naming not one, but two children sharing the same birth date. Are there special considerations when it comes to naming twins?

Since every name carries a purpose as well as a subliminal vibrational influence, it is extremely important that twins, and especially same sex twins, receive names that are equal in benefits. After all, because the birthday is the same, the innate personalities will also be very similar. All the more reason names of similar subliminal weight should be chosen. For instance, if one twin receives a name that encourages physical stamina and confidence, while the other gets a name that supports shy introspection, there could be a failure to thrive in the second. Or, if parents choose two names that are highly similar in look and sound, individual identity could be thwarted.

So what names did these famous parents choose for their new sons? First and foremost, Celine and Rene opted for names they feel will be inspirational. One twin is Eddy after Eddy Mornay, the producer of Celine's first albums and a father figure to her... and the second is Nelson, after Nelson Mandela. No question these two names will inspire in very different directions. Eddy is likely to be personable, active and an extreme freedom lover, while Nelson will be quiet, sensitive and artistically inclined. In this particular instance, even though these boys will grow up together as duet siblings, their parents should be aware, that if they are to blossom, they should not be raised alike. Nelson will need encouragement when it comes to confidence building through such things as art classes, music instruction and public speaking while Eddy is likely to need a stronger hand when it comes to discipline and focus. 

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What About Isabella?

 

There’s a new name for girls at the top of the Social Security Administration’s 2009 list of most popular baby names… Isabella. So if you’re an expectant parent, should you jump on the bandwagon and consider this name for your new daughter?

Isabella is actually a variation of Elizabeth and considered to have Spanish or Italian roots going back centuries. In fact, Isabella of Castile and Isabella of France both played major roles in their country’s political history. In Hebrew, the meaning of the name is “my God is a vow” or “devoted to God.” But when used in an English-speaking environment where the monarchy doesn’t exist, this name won’t support the same meaning or destiny.

Wonderfully feminine in sound and look, Isabella offers some interesting nickname options in Bella and Izzy, and those nicknames could come in handy as the moods of someone with this name are bound to change as much as the weather. Passionate and sensitive, Isabellas can play roles effortlessly, and will blossom when tossed into involvement with the arts. No question… someone with this name could thrive on the stage, in an orchestra, in front of a canvas, behind a camera or even on a political platform. Yet, expect real-life drama to follow your daughter from childhood through adulthood, and while your Isabella may play the romantic lead in her high school play, she is unlikely to partner with a committed mate with ease. There’s just too much isolating emotional energy here to get close and intimate with others. As with any prospective name, weigh the pros and cons. Then vote yes for Isabella if you’d love to see your daughter win an Academy Award… but no if you’d someday like her to be crowned Mother of the Year!

 

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